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As a parent, you definitely want your child to have a sense of obedience to all existing rules, both in the family, at school and in society in everyday interactions. Hello, what's the right way to make our children obedient and obedient to the rules.
In the ever-evolving information age, instilling a sense of compliance is more difficult than ever, how could information not be as developed as it is today. Likewise with our children, they easily absorb various information. So do not be surprised if many things are known by children but not known by their parents. This situation can have a positive impact and can also have a negative impact. The negative impact is that children look stubborn and think they understand more than their parents. So how to instill fear of children in parents?
Here are some ways to instill children's obedience to their parents:
Respect the opinion of children and do not underestimate them. Never underestimate a child's opinion, as a parent be a parent who wants to listen, but must be ready to correct if the child's opinion is wrong. Everything must be done in the right way, which is not to belittle the opinions of our children.
Consistent, consistent, not wishy-washy in instilling rules in the family. Because if we are not consistent and consistent in instilling rules, then children will underestimate and can ease the pain of their parents.
Don't embarrass your child in public. If our children make all the mistakes, never advise children in front of other people, especially their friends. It is better to call on children to brainstorm and give wise advice.
Reward children for their achievements with praise so that they feel appreciated for all their efforts to achieve achievements.
May we all be given children who have fear of their parents and are able to accept the rules that exist in the family and society.
Thank you to all friends who have stopped by my post. This is just a personal opinion that I hope will be useful to all of us.