I can never understand people who only barge into people's lives when they are in urgent need of their help or favour.
I understand that life hits people real bad, but come on, you haven't been conversing with someone for a couple of months, years etc even when you've been quite active with your dealings and all, yet not for a single moment have you thought of this person or to even use few minutes or seconds of your time to reach out to them to know just how they are faring, hoping up or how life is treating them.
Yet the very moment life hits you bad, you suddenly remember these people exist or once existed in your life.
You finally reached out and sometimes still not concerned or thoughtful enough to first ask how things have been with them yet go right ahead to table your demands, cast your own burdens and problems on them like they are the Messiah.
How cruel and wicked can the heart of man possibly be? How thoughtless and unkind can it get?
You didn't declare someone an enemy yet in 365 days of your life, you couldn't make a move to check up on them, yet inside this same 365 days when hit with problems and challenges, you suddenly make time, adjust your so busy schedule to reach out, doesn't it bother you, don't you guys have a little bit of conscience left in you?
I know some people wouldn't see it as a big deal, but trust me, it's a big deal for others, so we should learn to readjust and only do and be unto others what we would love them to do and be unto us, the rule is that simple.
Don't expect more or less from people, energies should be reciprocated in the same measures, after all we are all humans and we tend to always let the human version of us cloud our judgement.
I hope that as the week begins with this coming through your feed or timeline, that you would look back into your life and make a change and readjustment when and where necessary.
Have a good day!
20 January, 2025