Hi, friends!
Being single is a precious time, so you should enjoy your singlehood while it lasts. This thought came to mind this evening as I was brainstorming on what to create as content for the evening.
Being single is indeed a precious time. It's a season for enjoying and celebrating your youthfulness with friends and flirting. It's a precious time when you will experience or face reality as you grow to become a full woman. This phase of life is always accompanied by education, skills, a career, and the responsibility of taking care of yourself and growing into maturity.
However, you become independent in your decision-making, pursuing your personal goals, dreams, and visions without considering your partner's preferences. This moment is always interesting, having your state of freedom. But you are not free from house chores if you are staying with your parents, and even if you are not staying alone, you still have personal house chores.
Moreover, singlehood is a season you discover your life purpose, an opportunity to get to know what you are good at or what you are passionate about. You can go anywhere around the globe without interruption by your partner. You can do significant things for yourself without obstruction and more.
Singlehood is as flexible as you could ever think of. Additionally, you take charge of yourself, eat what you like, go out, and come back at any time. You own your finances and spend them spontaneously.
Being Married is a Precious Time
Being married is also a precious time spent with your spouse and children, and it comes with responsibilities. This season comes with stress. Motherhood or fatherhood is not a small thing. It is a call for responsibility. The things you used to do in your singlehood, you wouldn't see yourself doing those things again, because your leadership preference has shifted.
Here, personal priorities are going to shift. Being married provides an opportunity to accommodate people around you, your spouse's family, and the neighbors. Children come in and work heaped for you, with responsibility upon responsibility. Taking care of the husband and taking care of the children. Being married is precious with responsibility.
I could recall how my aunt was living a carefree life when she was single; she enjoyed every day of her time with friends and family. She got married and there was no freedom as usual again.
Furthermore, being married to the right person and applying the principles of marriage is something precious and unexplainable.
Marriage is another phase of life, a journey that needs no sabbatical or hold-up. It's a lifelong journey, and we need to be careful to make the right choice for the betterment of the future. Continuation of what you had built when you were single. If you had a business when you were single, it would turn to collaboration with your spouse.
Responsible keeps on growing and growing. Facing the challenges of marriage is an amazing thing because it will teach you resilience and adaptability. It brings a sense of purpose and strength as you journey through. The reality of marriage is real. That's why we need to make our choices compatible.
Thank you for your reading through.
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