Hello everyone, Hope you are doing fine today.
I'd love to share my thoughts on something, and this would come as a question.
Can we stop seeing every opposite gender as an intimate friend? The first time you see the opposite gender, what comes to your mind? What are you thinking about at that point? Do you want to just walk down the aisle with him or her?
There is more to life than just having an intimate friend. One day you will marry, but you will have to understand that you will settle down with just one person, and so it is very important that you stop seeing every opposite gender as people you should have feelings for.
This can cause a very big problem for you because if, after all you do for this particular person, it ends up that he or she is not your spouse, it will really break you. Work on your mind and make sure whatever you are doing for a person that you are just doing it out of genuine love, not because you are expecting something from that person.