Are you ever underestimated?
I'm sure almost everyone has ever feel it. And I ever also felt underestimated by my own best friend.
I know how you feel, we will surely feel sad and hurt when our best friend precisely underestimate us. Especially if we are underestimated by the prospective spouse of our lives or our prospective-in-law.
Nah when we are underestimated, we do have 2 choices. The first, we can be sad, angry, irritated, disappointed and finally we justify our friend's words that:
- Yap you are right, I'm really right as you said
And we also prove that our friend's words are true. Or the second choices? I.e we do not listen to the words of our friends. But we are precisely proving that their words are wrong. These disparaging words are not appropriate. Your disparaging words 100% proved to be incorrect. Then, which choices do you want to choose?
THAT CHOICE IS 100% IN YOUR HANDS.
But, often when we are underestimated, that makes us irritated and disappointed is what we expect about the response of our friend it does not match what we want.
I was once underestimated when I was a school. And when I started my business, I was laughed at by my friend. My friends all laughed at me. In fact, one by one my friends left me. There was even a friend of mine who said, "If you're talking business again, you don't have to be friends with us anymore".
The words are very spicy and very disparaging. And I didn't think, the words of a friend I called ' friends ' were really hurting my heart. Nah when your friend invites him into things that lead to success, why would your friend refuse?
In principle, the man did not like to change. You should know this sentence. The man does not like changing. And in fact, tend to hate change. Someone who is accustomed to eating rice, suddenly we have to follow the diet of others. Every day eat wheat bread, potatoes and others. Sure feeling not fun, isn't it?
This proves that humans do not like to change.
For example, you with your friends who every day accustomed to going to the mall, the college together, but now suddenly you have a habit beyond your routine. You're telling about the future, success, career, and telling something else that has nothing to do with them. Your friends may prefer shopping, prefer to watch, or other things that waste time.
Your friends may prefer shopping, prefer to watch, or other things that waste time. However, you choose to build your career and future. And surely you are underestimated. When you are underestimated, you will choose the first, or the second choices?
If you choose the first, then you dare not get out of the routine. You prefer to follow the flow of your friends. But if you today choose the second choices, I.e out of the flow, even against the current.
THAT MEANS YOU'RE READY TO BE DIFFERENT.
And different people are lonely people. You have no friends anymore. Your friend is laughing, you're alone. Your friend is having fun, you are struggling to build the future. Your friend is enjoying his youth, you leave the youth and build the future. You definitely feel alone. Do you feel alone?
**If you feel alone, it means you are being underestimated. When I was underestimated, one by one of my friends left me, and I felt alone. But, what I do 5 years later? My friend have graduated and became an undergraduate, while I was late into a graduate. My friend had graduated 4 years earlier, while I was busy building a career. However, I remain completed my degree. But 4 years later when I graduated, my friends became employees, while I was an businessman, forex and crypto trader.
When you are underestimated, it hurts. When you are underestimated, it feels sad. When you are underestimated, it tastes for alone. That's right. However, time will answer everything.
