Longing is like dancing the tango; it takes two people to do it, to miss each other. Longing is like clapping hands, it takes two palms to do it. This means unrequited longing does not apply to me. That is a principle that has been applied for a long time and has not changed until now.
We may be different in interpreting longing. Maybe there are people who have a true longing principle when someone prays for the person he missed in silence, regardless of whether the person missed is missing him or not. He didn't even care if the person he missed didn't know him. There are people with principles like that, but it's not me.
Unrequited longing is not my principle. Ideally, this longing should synergize, give, and receive. That's my deepest longing. Maybe there is a longing for an idol singer or an idol football team or an idol film player who doesn't know us, let alone miss us. However, that was not what I meant by longing. It's about the longing of two hearts.
For me, longing must synergize to make it into a harmony that is full of passion, energy, and gives birth to vibrations that make everything look and feel more beautiful. It could be, when I miss someone, that person doesn't miss me because they are busy.
Even if he doesn't miss, at least that person thinks of me and it would be better if he also knew that I was missing him. And when he found out I was missing him, he became happy. It's also good if he is also grateful because I miss him.
On other occasions, it's her turn to miss me. He recalled the moment we had spent together when we drowned the hubbub to the bottom of the ocean in one breath. And when he misses me, I probably don't miss him. I was busy with work and was running at speed seven.
Later it will be our turn to miss each other. It is not a longing that passes in silence, but a longing that is conveyed by means of words, either connotatively or denotatively.
What about unrequited longing that is not even expected?
When you find longing like this, the energy of longing will slowly drain and then die. Maybe I will remember, but not someone I will miss with all my heart. Longing does not give birth to a harmonious and rhythmic tone, sound, or movement such as tango.[]
