Just yesterday I said I was going to be a lawyer and here I'm I planing on serving my country with a course totally different from what I had in mine when I was younger.
When I was younger, I remember my Dad always wanting me to be that perfect lawyer and it was all flowing at some point but then I was very good at art (drawing) and mum will always support me with drawing books but Dad was not in support of that only law books and other books.
As time goes on, I had to stop drawing and focus on my studies because Dad was pretty into it like crazy.
If there is something I will like to tell every parent out of experience is to study their children very well and try to understand them to what they're really good at and help support them achieve their goals and not to impose on them what you want them to became, Because it will always fall back really bad.
Though I understand mostly, children don't know what they want on time but with the help of proper superversing, that can be fixed.
I will always compose my own music and still, love sketching like crazy. Time goes on and I started discovering how deep I love music and Intrument has a whole and so I started going closer to people I know that are very good in it, And so I started training myself to be perfect in it.
My drawing skills keep dying by the day and I was just has ok has normal not to even remember I was once into it.
And then I gained admission to study "Mass communication" not "Law",
Dad wasn't disappointed at all and that was so surprising because I wasn't expecting hem to be that calm. I think he came to understand life wasn't just like that.
Graduating from school and then getting to understand life fully has it is. Lost my Dad and still living life cause there is nothing I can do to bring him to life.
No one can ever be like my Dad or replace his place in my heart in this life. The kind of love he showed me I can't find it anywhere else. Sometimes I Cry alot when I remember he is gone, When I no longer see his calls again.
If you have experience this, you will have a better understanding of what I'm saying. It's so painful and still, I have to be strong for mum and the family.
I have traveled to many states in Nigeria, I have traveled to atlist three counties, and I have had alot of experiences in life has a whole.
Alot I have learnt in life and alot I'm still yet to learn in life has I get to life in it.
I was once a child but now I'm so grown up, so mature, followed with alot of responsibilities as an adult. So strong and still learning has life goes by.
Thanks for reading