I am

What would be would be whether you like it or not.
Certainly, not every situation can be controlled but your reaction towards the action is what counts.
When always faced with unexpected setback what goes on?
Standing by Hive account@kemmyb first guide, just breathe.
Breathing doesn't.mean that circumstances changes but helps to control instantaneous reaction.
A second delay is good making more seconds delay would certainly be ideal, so be rest assured to make the best of circumstances despite whatever and really whatever.

The world is large enough to carter for everyone but doing what's within ones control would certainly make that stand.
Standing tall at all times may seem weak or irrational but being you is what matters.
I am who I am, when that is clear it is easier to change whatever paradigm one stands for, those that is preferred and that which is not.