hey everyone, i hope y'all are doing great. it's been a while i have written over here and this is because, my stuffs were stolen but gradually i am purchasing new ones.
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this topic was actually brought up as a result of how i was treated while facing some challenges due to my stolen gadgets and other valuable stuffs.
Teaching others how to treat you is a subject that will cover a variety of topics, including how to deal with those that we truly don't like, those with whom we don't get along, those with whom we set boundaries, and how to establish rules based on what we will not put up with.
More importantly, it deals with the people we also love because occasionally, when you're with someone you like, you might realize that they don't respect you in the same way that you do or vice versa.
Especially at the beginning of a relationship, this will be a factor. Anytime you feel that you have not been treated fairly in a relationship, regardless of where you are in it or how far along you are, you can express this to your partner. However, when a relationship first starts, that is the best time to communicate with your partner your tolerance levels and disapproval levels.
This can be done in a calm and considerate manner, which will undoubtedly be interesting and accommodating to them. On the other hand, being brutal and harsh simply because you want your partner to know what you do not tolerate might make them aware of your boundary and the cross over line, but it might prove detrimental because they might either respond positively or permanently disappear.
Everything I've outlined above is something I'd want to write about. However, when you brainstorm anything for the first time, it usually isn't flawless or even relevant ad this is what is basically happening to me rightnow.
to be continued in the next article....
thanks for reading
