How can someone who wants to get the attention of others quickly understand? So-called people who want to be prepared. We, as human beings, can easily catch the "want to pay attention" that other people are turning to.
Why? I understand why. I paraphrase a person who wants to be a "ruler". I don't want to be so distressed by those who moderately express love expressions with jokes such as "Hey, wait!" There, under the guise of "You I'm very interested in the" wind of "more I want you and involvement", con here of consciousness troll instinct to react instantaneously to the words and deeds of others come trying to. The feeling that "Oh, I don't want to get any closer to me.
For those who want to be prepared, "to direct your consciousness to me" is reflected in every action. The person himself is not aware that he is pecking. People who do such things have loneliness or affection that expects the same amount of affection to be directed, but such intervention is very painful.
What is difficult is that if the person refuses to do so, he or she may be deeply hurt if he refuses. I don't want to hurt unnecessarily. But don't get caught up in your work. The best way to get involved is "symbiosis with a great distance", but it takes a lot of nerves and time to get there, so it's very troublesome. It is one way to cut off the whole relationship by leaving it to the disgust of being "sudden", but it is not a very promising one. It feels a little shallow.
I'm a little wondering what a person who wants to pretend to be an expression of interest wants, and what isn't satisfied, but I can't feel the desire to satisfy that feeling. Rather, the heart separates from the person by the amount of such a thing. I'm sure somebody who knows that will know it somewhere. But I can't stop. Perhaps he could have been involved with others only in that ways.🙂🙂🙂