Understanding. A word that is making the most sense to me recently. One day, I woke up in the morning, and I wrote, "I hope that you get to the point in your life where understanding makes you act on certain things. I hope you get to that point where understanding makes you refrain from doing certain things".
I had reached that point in my life when I started acting on stuff because I understood. I did also stopped a lot of things because I understood too.
Today, I found out, understanding plays a vital role in the wider world than just the one I created. Once you understand that you are supposed to do this because it will bring that results, you will do it, without questioning your reasons. This goes for refraining too.
Should you have sex at your detriment?
Yes, sex is fun, the pleasure is inexplicable. Maybe, some people can explain. As young people, we follow the trend and get lost in the euphoria of pleasure. As Ladies, we expose ourselves to unwanted diseases and pregnancies. Life becomes complicated. As men, they expose themselves to sexually transmitted diseases and life of restlessness.
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If a lady understands that there is nothing in sex except pleasure, and, probably, unwanted pregnancy or diseases, she might stay away until she is married. If a man understands too, he'll do the same.
Aren't they preventive measures?
Of course, technology wouldn't do that to us. Gone are those days when you can get pregnant and are forced to keep your baby and be publicly humiliated by your peer group. There are pills in the market for after-sex, as there are pills for abortions. Oh, the other day, someone sent me a video that showed drugs that can be taken to protect one from sexually transmitted diseases. I had no idea.
See, the answers are staring at us in the face. So, we choose the greater of our evil. We can go ahead and enjoy the thrills that sex offers as long as we have an escape route. No one is judging anyone.
What about the Satyr and the Nymphomaniacs?
You might want to refrain from having sex, what happens if you are an addict? What happens if your needs are a result of a medical condition? Who gets to satisfy the hungry lion waiting for prey to pounce? Who? You?
Do you boast about sex and body counts?
Shut up, then! You will think you are good enough until you meet the sex lions. The ones who are hardly satisfied. The ones who can't seem to be satisfied no matter how good you are. These lions can have sex now, have it later, and later without the aids of pills. They were born with it. The less you boast, the less your ego will be trampled upon. So, shut up.
Ever met someone better than you in bed?
Was your ego bruise? I hope not. Did you feel down? Did you want a repeat? Did you try to go all out to prove yourself? What exactly did you do?
Ever met someone who swept you off your feet with their bed skills?
Gosh...that must have been a wonderful experience for you. Did you wish you could have that forever? Did it make you jealous to find them in the arms of another? Do you daydream about them sometimes?
What do you think about oral sex by the way?
Is that another paradise on its own? Does giving and receiving sound interesting to you? Does the mere thought of having someone do stuff to your fifth sense feel out of this world?
When did understanding turn to sexual lectures and questions?
Forgive my manners, deviating from the main course. I truly do not know where I was going with this. All I know is that the day I wrote about understanding, I was talking about understanding sex.
I was referring to understanding your body, your needs, the physical attractions you have, the fantasies, and yes, your fears. What makes you afraid to have sex? Can you talk about it with me?