a glimpse of information in our village about marriage.
In one region, there are quite different ways of understanding language, attitudes or behavior, even the actual method is definitely different, especially here discussing things specifically about marriage. It would be very strange for people who are rigid, not thinking long and unpleasant if they think that weddings in our village are too embarrassing and lacking in ethics. But at least we respect the customs that were created by our ancestors, who the aim is none other, but to make your grandchildren happy in the future, isn't it very boring to see a plain white wall without any other colors?, At least there is an additional color, even if it's only 1 color, but if there is more than 1 color it will be able to illuminate the beauty for the eyes when looking at the painting.
Isn't the picture below very ridiculous?
For me, this is something unique and unusual for other regions, this is Indonesia, our country, which is unique perhaps, especially in the city of Pasuruan, East Java province.
So here's the story, my friends: in our village, when the groom wants to go to the wedding venue, of course at night, he is guarded by many teenagers, old people and even mothers who accompany the bride and groom. the man with an Islamic drum who uses a booming sound drum, and no less exciting than the explosion of fireworks, even the groom's friends embarrass and laugh at him with various kinds of jokes and laughter like the photo above, that's one of them, Of course, there are different ways to embarrass his friend who is getting married, by walking some distance from the wedding venue.
Maybe you think this is too ridiculous, has no manners and so on, this is our village with this very embarrassing custom, or some others think it's just a normal thing, even more ridiculous in other areas than in the photo above. However, it needs to be underlined : all regions definitely have different customs, of course we have to respect them, especially since we are entering another region and our customs are very different at home, therefore, be polite wherever you are. , because if not, your life will be at stake! hehehe.... I'm not threatening, but I'm also afraid that if I do something like that later ...😆
That's all from us, best greetings to all of you!
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