Dear All
Match mate, is indeed the most hidden secret before. Full of mystery, and full of surprises. Compatibility is unpredictable, whether she is beautiful, handsome, rich, good, not arrogant or studious, nobody knows. There are times when someone is sure about his soul mate and then builds a good relationship, but in the end he is his life partner not him. There are also those who are married, but because it does not fit into the world and the hereafter, will be separated as well.
There is no one in this world who can be sure who he will be our wife and husband someday. That certainty belongs only to the creator, who has become our destiny to be together until death.
There is indeed a match that has been arranged, but trying to find and find it really we need to do, not just waiting without effort. It is impossible for something to fall from the sky by itself, all requires effort and struggle. If you say, If there really is a match, then I say yes, it has been determined for you, but he will never be found in this world, if you wait for him in silence without effort and prayer.
As a small example that often occurs in the daily life of a partner. For example, we visit other people's homes, and as guests we are served drinks and food. Yes, drinks and food are for us, but if we don't move our hands and mouth to enjoy them, we will never be able to enjoy them. It is not clear, if everything that has been determined by Allah SWT is for us, But there must be a business too, not just sitting alone.
Our match was indeed written in Lawh Mahfudz. Want to be taken from unclean or lawful ways can still be like that. What is different is blessing, not about what, how much or who. But how God gives it, is pulled gently or thrown angrily depends on us too. Is not compatibility is a reflection of us, not the compatibility of our ribs, so it will not be much different from the nature and attitudes that exist in us.
For those who are waiting for their match, then improve yourself if you want a good partner, and be patient with sincerity. Do not be jealous and feel sad if you see them dating now, because they are also not necessarily fit, not necessarily going to get married. Stay patient, try, and improve yourself because the word match is not far from you.
If you have not found your soul mate now, you might not try and pray. Have not improved themselves and there are still many sins that make your soul mate far from your circulation. Don't be discouraged when dating, because everyone has a match, that's all you find.
