I'm sure some of you know what profession I do. Before this article was written, I had published a self-introduction so that you all know who I am, where I come from, what my experience was, and all of my work. One of them I am a distributor of a Multi Level Marketing company.
I am often taught and given advice on how to live successful people, starting from the mindset, attitude, how to communicate with people, hard work, patience, and I realize there are many behaviors that I must change if I want to be successful at a young age. Success is not easy, it takes time to process, don't give up easily. I also often observe the behavior of people who have been successful in the business that I am engaged in. Many of my friends are already successful and have a lot of income. And I realized, these are the tips that I got and I hope this can help you all to be successful one day.
5 mindsets you must have if you want to be successful. Read it slowly so you can understand it well.
1 ) Think Big.
Successful people always think big. For example, when I was in school, I had many smart friends, they had good grades in Mathematics, Physics, Chemistry, and many more. They have expertise in their respective fields. When I asked what their aspirations are in the future, they just replied :
I don't know what i will become in the future, maybe I will become an office employee, office secretary, or I could be a boss in an office.
Hahaha, I immediately laughed with itself.
During exams at school, they also have very good test scores, they are too satisfied with the results, they only focus on their test scores. Until now, not all of my friends have good jobs and sufficient economy. I began to understand that they should not only think about how to get good grades, that does not guarantee a better future.
If they want to become doctors, think and find ways to make it happen, not just focus on the test scores, think about how to approach patients, ask for advice from people who have worked in hospitals before you. You can also learn how to speak well, learn to write job applications, it's not just about test scores, it's about how you can become a doctor that people can trust. So think big.
2 ) Think Focus.
This case is the same as the story above, I once asked my close friends about what their goals are, they only answered :
Maybe I will become an employee, secretary, I don't know what to become, we'll see what happens to me in the future.
Stop!!! That's wrong thinking, successful people have to focus on a plan, you have to be able to determine what you want to be in the future, don't just give up on the situation, if you want to be a businessman, then you have to focus on being a businessman, learn to be a good businessman, learn How to promote a product, you must be able to serve consumers or customers well. Focus on your one goal, Do you understand what I mean?
3 ) Thinking Reality.
When I was in high school, I wanted to be a doctor, but I realized that if I went to college and majored in medicine, I wouldn't have enough money to pay for my education. I am aware that it is better not to force the situation, I admit that I have to face this reality, if I force the situation, I am worried that I will not be able to continue my studies if one day I cannot pay the tuition fees. In fact, the doctor's job is to determine what disease the patient is experiencing, and what medication must be taken so that the patient can recover. What can the patient do to make the treatment run smoothly.
I don't just give up, now I can carry out my duties like a doctor, I become a distributor of herbal medicines, in this way I can learn how to analyze what diseases are experienced by consumers, what drugs should I give, and what to do by my consumers so that they recover from the illness they suffer, I can also learn by reading articles about health from Google or watching videos that discuss health on YouTube.
The goal is the same, it's just that the way I go is a little different from other people. I also believe that I can be successful like a doctor even though I am not a doctor.
4 ) Thinking to adapt.
Adapting is important, in today's world, the internet is growing, if you can't find a job or become an employee in a company, will you give up and do nothing? What about your parents, brothers, brothers, sisters and the whole family who hope in you? are you going to let them starve?
Even though you can start a small business and sell from the internet, you can promote products through FaceBook, Instagram, Whatsapp, and there are many social media that you can use to sell.
Remember, adaptation is important.
5 ) Thinking of looking for a rival.
Successful people really like having rivals, you must be happy when you have rivals, never give up when you have rivals, if you hate competition will you be stressed? would you be unhappy? will you hate or even antagonize your rivals? Compete in a sporting manner, you can become even better, learn from your rivals, correct your shortcomings, the more you learn you will become even better.
If in sports you don't have competitors, can you become an athlete?
If you don't have competitors in your business, can you compete to develop your business and become rich?
If you have no competition in singing, can you practice even harder and become number one in the singing contest?
So, you have to find out who people can be your rivals, compete positively so that the results are also positive.
Thank you :)