Is curious; because it seems that everyone has its own definition for that Word and questions les when all they think they have the truth and that their way of love is the correct and the only one that exists. Clear: Some say that hands sudan them, others are nervous, others shine eyes, others feel knots in the throat, others feel butterflies in your stomach, others feel anxiety "have you in my arms", as the song of Julio Jaramillo says. To do this, perform a survey and at the same time an investigation.
Survey to my coworkers; the first was Miss Genesis, I asked him what love is for you? and I answered:-"It is stop being myself, by the other person," "! my priority is the other person and not me", "is give myself completely." " "I don't know, well I think".
Now, I asked: and you you can't love at first sight?, answer me:-"that is cultivated".
-Ok, and that same, feel you, by your parents, siblings, friends, children,... I answered-"It is not, distinct". He smiled, and dared to follow the survey and ask another colleague:-lived, what is love to you?, lived, the watch with sadness and tells him: "well, I've not felt love, have a daughter and I want his dad, but love I have not felt I guess that I got tired at the beginning felt something for him, I showed it and it was unrequited, I got tired. I didn't care, I tried not, me not supported; Anyway, I never felt that I wanted to; for me, a person who does not feel love, may not give love".
you I asked my spouse, and I answered:"Is something that feels and demonstrates".
I asked my twelve year old asperger, he said surprisingly:"love is a feeling, that inspires you to follow "trying, to fall in love with the person that you love and want to care for her, help her, protect her and don't want her to leave and in his heart like you're forever."
Research: in the dictionary of the Royal Academy, love; It is:
"Intense feeling of the human being that, starting from its propiainsuficiencia, need and seeks the meeting and union with another being".
"m. feeling towards another person who naturally draws us, seeking reciprocity in the desire for union, us comprehensive," "happy and gives powerto live, communicate, and create".
Now well, from a different perspective of the research: we have that a title has attracted the attention of "Nothing more perfect that love"... Love is patient, helpful and without envy. It does not appear and the important is not. Does not act with cheapness or looking for their own interest. Love not be carried away by anger, but forget the offenses and forgives. It is never glad something unfair and always likes the truth. Love excuses everything; always trusts, always hopes and always perseveres. Love will never happen... 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 Bible Latin America.
And another version we must: "The excellence of love" love is patient, is helpful; love does not envy, love is not boastful, not it conceits; It does nothing unseemly, does not seek its own interests, not easily angered, does not take into account the evil; not enjoying injustice, most is the truth. All excuse it, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love does not expire ever... 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 Reina Valera 1960.
Analysis: Analyzing, some readings on the subject and my perception of some respondents, highlights the following: in short, a person feels love, when you want to share a life with someone, do not want him or are you does no evil, capable of giving his life for that person, is not far away and if it does always returns.
When love comes, feels that you die, and at the same time begin to live, it makes you feel like a child, that has a large come.
Is so complex and at the same time so simple explain the love; arriving; to the point of feeling sadness, when the other person is sad; feel joy, when the other person feels it.
when that person something happens, you want to be there; to care for, protect, defend, or simply help to that person.
Now well, much more easily, so they are safe if they feel love; perform this exercise, just change the word love for the person's name; for example:
Hernesto, is patient, helpful and without envy. It does not appear and the important is not. Does not act with cheapness, nor seeks their own attractions.
Hernesto, not be carried away by anger, but forget the offenses and forgives. It is never glad something unfair and always the truth. likes
Hernesto, sorry. always trusts, always hopes and always perseveres. Hernesto love never happen.
Then, perform this exercise, do it vice versa and reflect, if you have the feeling of wanting to stay or join that person, for a very long time or until death separate them; Although sometimes feels that it can even exceed eses limit.
Can be taken into account, which currently have linked or divided the essence of love, platonic love, true love, love of God, love of things, parents love listening , love of children; Finally, there are many divisions and concepts. However, no matter to whom or to which; It is the same essence.
However, there are people who resist this feeling; achieving this, changing palette of colors tone grayscale.
which you feel love, you have faith, hope, and new energy to keep fighting or live for it.
