Writing your thoughts is not always easy! My mind, like a controller, checks: is it possible to write this in open access for everyone? After all, my whole life will be like through a window without curtains, when it is already dark in the yard, visible to everyone. And everyone will know my problems. But for some time I decided to learn not to be afraid to write the truth about my real life. Not just beautiful pieces taken out of context, but the whole picture. First of all, for self-knowledge, and what other people will think of me does not matter!
Yesterday I was in the theater, where I was invited by my fellow actors. I didn't know these people very well. They give the impression of deep and sincere people. I will write about the play later. But one episode struck me! There was an episode when two men were naked out completely and stood on the stage for a long time showing off all their masculine beauty! I do not know why there was such an episode, the play was quite difficult to perceive and understand. But I want to say something else. These guys are definitely completely without complexes. They don't care what their acquaintances will say about them. And it is, I think, good!
Because many people do not allow themselves to be themselves, and to be happy, fearing the condemnation of others. We often suppress our emotions, feelings, words ... We live in stress, depression. And our soul turns into a graveyard of dark unspoken desires. And in this stress and unrealization, our children often grow up. We do not see how our state of mind, our family relationships affect their soul, and then when a problem arises in their physical body, we realize that without realizing it, we were the creators of it ...
Last week, I suddenly discovered a strange purple hardening on my 10 - year - old daughter 's breast, which was painful to touch.
It was 12 o'clock at night and to be honest I panicked! Terrible thoughts began to creep into my head. My calm belief that everything would be fine went somewhere at that moment. And although I understand perfectly well that my psychological state is transmitted to the child and my stress can worsen her condition and her immunity, but I could not take myself in hand. It's great when there is someone more cold-blooded and sane in the family, and it was my eldest daughter Victoria who quickly shoved me into the bathroom to calm me down. So today we were at the gynecologist for the first time.
Every girl must one day cross this line and take this step towards adulthood. I never insist until she realizes that she needs a checkup. But this time we only showed the problem of the breast. And fortunately, the doctor at our station is a nice and pleasant woman. So Darinka calmed down. Diagnosed with non-lactational mastitis. It often occurs in girls aged 9 to 11 years. What causes it? The reasons may be different. We are now so far from the right way of life.
Poor blood circulation from constant sitting, ecology and imperfect nutrition, bacteria got into the microcracks and the inflammatory process began!
In addition, I recently read one interesting thought that was shocked. Studies were conducted that changes occur in blood droplets if its owner is on a substantial distance and looks or a cheerful positive movie or a movie horror. In the first case, blood cells of macrophages that devour bacteria are activated, and in the second case, the bacteria become aggressive and attacking macrophages, destroying them. So we decided after a visit to a doctor, to create a positive mood and went to a cafe where the unique dish was ordered for Darinka - black dumplings. They turn out to contain ink cuttlefish :) Walk Lviv always creates a cheerful mood!
So we decided to watch good comedies more often, laugh a lot to make our macrophages strong :)
And also we learn to observe our thoughts and emotions and remember that our children must grow up in an environment of love, happiness, sincerity, mutual respect and positive emotions, so that their immunity was strong and able to fight against negative factors ...
I wish everyone a good day!