I understand a lot of time people get caught up in negative situations of life, that threaten their inner peace and even sometimes question their beliefs up to the point of asking questions like "Why Me".
Like Mr. Unfortunate, You heard about an investment opportunity that everyone is talking about and most people have turned their lives around because of this same little piece of information but the moment you finally decided to give it a try and after investing "things fall apart".
Yesterday you where passing by and you saw a man carrying creates of eggs and one of the create is about to fall off out of your kindness you decided to give a helping hand suddenly they all fell down, all broken now the man is saying "Oga who sent you" Yea I know you were only trying to help.
People get into all kinds of messy situations in life for one reason or another they all end up in regrets "I should have just kept my money, I should have just closed my mouth, I should have just passed or maybe stay home", all these and more regrets start pilling up in their minds causing anxiety, depression and sometimes cost money..
These are real day to day live scenario that can happen to anyone and they can be really ugly judging from the damage they can cause both mentally and physical. But, what if there is a way to minimize or manage the damage so it doesn't get to your core🤔
Avoidance:
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The first and most accurate solution is not getting into the situation in the first place, but if you must, you should do proper calculations and take necessary precautions before taking actions.
You must be alive to fix your sheeeet😉:
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So many people have taken the path to the other side of eternity because of a situation they got themselves into or because of issues they can't handle which is not always the best option. One thing you have to know is everybody have issues to deal with some are way heavier than yours and yet they still found solutions try to reach out to someone who has maybe been through the situation you find yourself and you might be surprise that the way to fix it up is not that far fetch.
Let the storm pass
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Apart from life threatening issues, some times the most effective way to deal with situations is to sit back and let the storm pass. You have to understand that in life sh*t happens and if it's not so much that put the lives of others at risk or yours then I think you can take a step back brace yourself and take the impact it will pass, you will be alright as a matter of fact you could be telling stories about it in just years to come "nothing is worth your life".
Dealing with failures:
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When it has to do with personal failures, the best way to go about them is cry a bit then try again. Sounds so calm but this is the most difficult one sometimes. imagine investing all your resources on a project and it fails, you alone know how you were able to put the funds together, but if you don't get up and try again you might just have bought for yourself the very thing that will eat your life out, but the moment you decide you to give it another try you start to see possibilities and your strength is renewed trust me it won't be like the first time it will grow faster. try hat project again.
Lastly, "manage your space".
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People walk around with negative vibes everywhere the moment you let them spray some on you, you start acting up what you received from the person. It is easy to step out in the morning with so much positive energy and the moment you meet some persons you encounter a situation that challenges your positivity, "people are not well".In Nigeria we have a saying "NO CARRY YOUR OWN COME DEY WORRY MY OWN" It means don't use whatever is disturbing you to disturb my peace, EVERYBODY GET WETIN DEY WORRY AM everyone has his own demons to face.
The last thing I'll say is, "You are the master of your situations" Life happens but how you react is up to you and the product of your reaction is on you.