People say, "The curse of intelligent people is hard to fall in love." I guess that's how I feel. This also applies to intelligent women. Actually I am also confused, somehow someone can fall in love. How did they get started? Why is this happening?
Then, why is it difficult for intelligent people to fall in love? According to me:
Smart people like to be annoyed with themselves when they meet stupid people. Stupid people are illogical thinking and rely too much on feelings. Intelligent people find it difficult to appreciate what they are not equal to.
Stupid people only talk about romance, the hottest gossip and other rubbish news. Even though intelligent people like heavy discussions.
Uncertainty about the future. thorough. Fear of choosing the wrong one, because a person's rotten nature is usually only discovered after marriage.
Too focused on yourself. Career is number one, because the stomach is the most important thing. We can live without love, but not with food.
Closed. Introverts usually have a harder time falling in love because they are shy and like to hide things.
Living life is like traveling. If you meet your soul mate along the path of life then that is great. If not, that's okay.
Independent and too comfortable alone.
Smart people usually get along with smart people too. While the number of intelligent people is not much. This scarcity makes it difficult for them to find a partner. But once you meet a smart one, it's still not necessarily a match. Every now and then try to discuss with career women or women who are too smart, then pay attention to how they view the future & marital problems.
I've also liked someone, but the feeling of liking was only limited to admiration and not falling in love. It's easy for me to forget people I admire at first sight. It seems we need to be stupid for a while in order to feel love.
If I start a relationship but it doesn't work out, it means I have to break up with him and maybe hurt his feelings. But I don't want to hurt people's feelings.
I adhere to the once-in-a-lifetime marriage principle. Having a complicated relationship is a waste of time, energy & feelings, even though our time in this world is very limited. I don't want to be stuck in a toxic relationship that will traumatize and ruin my future.
Oh that's okay. I want to be adventurous, while I'm still young. There will be no more time to enjoy this freedom after marriage.