Hey all human being with OCD, OCD members or authors or writers with s4s and mustard, how are you all? I hope everyone is good with your family and friends. I love to see smile in all of your beautiful place. We are human being. We all live in this world. Some live in China or Some in USA or Some in Russia or others country. Different country has different rules or system or tradition or culture or lifestyle. But we all are human being. As a human being we can see differences in our life. Suppose in thought. Most of the time thought of a man don’t match with a woman. Every person has own personal thoughts as their own thinking. But no one in this world without thinking or thought. This words are most familiar to all human being. It can be positive thought or negative thought. But we all are the circle of low and high category thought in our life journey.
We have some personal thoughts. Thoughts help us to express the personality of others. But sometimes we can't express these thoughts directly to other people. Thoughts change for various reasons. When we get to know a person, his behavior, his manner of speaking, his mentality. All of this puts pressure on our brains to give us some feedback on that person. We express some opinions and we keep some opinions hidden within ourselves. The opinions that we keep hidden, we try to express in our own work.
Many friends come to us in school and college life. Some friends take place in our minds, and we keep our distance from some friends. But there are some special reasons behind maintaining this distance. Maybe we don't agree with that man or his behavior doesn't live up to my expectations. I believe that if there is a negative image of that person then our work is affected based on that. You try to be silent on the person close to you for a long time, you try to be patient so that you do not get involved in any dispute. But at some point we are forced to express our thoughts directly. Which leads us to conflict.
When a good friend, a different feeling than friendship is born in you. Then we try to express it. But even after that a kind of fear works in us. Because it comes to our minds, instead of expressing our feelings, the existing relationship may be ruined. Many people try to avoid it. But I always like to talk directly. Because I am ready to fight what is going to happen instead. I love to keep my mind clear. If I can't express my thoughts directly, then it starts to hurt me in my mind. I had a good friend for a long time. I have known him since my school life. He was such a close friend of mine that I was forced to believe everything he said. If there was anything I thought he was lying about, I would try to avoid it. There was a time when my silence and his lying relationship was cutting into what was bothering me. I try to express my innermost thoughts to him. I told him openly what I was thinking about him or what was going on in my mind about him.
He decided to sever his friendship with me before he understood me. But even then I was feeling calm, because I had revealed what was going on in my mind. You will find self-satisfaction only when you try to listen to the words of your mind. Because the words of our minds are not always wrong. When we judge a person, it is as wrong sometimes as it is right.
Everyone has the right to express their opinion. So we have to use those rights to try to keep our relationships clean. Because if you keep someone in your mind, then that relationship will never move forward in the future.
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