Dear future boyfriend, I hope you get the chance to read this.
I've always considered myself easy to please. In other words, I am low maintenance. And I say this with confidence because I have met females in my lifetime.
I am not demanding or entitled, unless of course to my parents, and I'm learning to fix my entitlement prooblem with them but they keep making statements making me think I really should be more entitled, then they put up actions that completely confuse me. Then I'm just left hanging, confused and alone.
I love food and food makes me happy, but it can not get me feeling happy when I'm sad. Which is weird because I get really cranky when I'm hungry. So maybe food could be a source of my joy.
On other occassions where food doesn't give me joy, try sending me money. I am a very, at least I try to be, a very self sufficient person so I will argue about receivibg money from a person. Especially if it's a person I am certain I cannot pay back. I will fight it and refuse because I hate feeling like a freeloader. It's a pride thing.
However, to avoid my fights with my pride, just send me money without telling me. If I trust you enough to have my account details, just surprise me with money. It gets me in a great mood.
I'm not all about gifts and money though. I love a listening ear every now and then. Sometimes, I just want someone around who can listen to me pour out my thoughts. Don't contribute, just stay quiet and listen. I will fall in love with you, trust me. And be an educated listener. Don't fiddle or play around, just be there.
I also get happy when someone comes through for me. Like do my laundry when I least ecpect it. Buy me lunch when I'm thinking about what to do with my life. Just do stuff I least expect. Be spontaneous with me. If you ask me, I'll say no. So just do it. I will worship the ground you walk on.
Romance makes me happy. Intimate romance. Feet rubs, full body massages, selfless acts of intimacy throw me off bounds with internal bliss.
A good book or a great movie makes me happy. I'll be smiling from ear to ear and I wouldn't even be able to explain why.
The little things matter to me. I mean the very little things that the person performing them wouldn't even notice, make me love a person. Like picking up my stuff when they fall. Tucking my hair behind my ear, placing my clothes on a hanger, fixing a minor problem for me and any other little thing that only takes a few seconds of a person's time. Those things mean the world to me.
I'm easy to please. I hope future boyfriend has sense to read this. Coz I can't shout.
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