Do you ever wonder, ¿Are you happy? or do you just make people think you are?
Nowadays there are many unhappy people, they go out smiling, but in reality they do it because they all do it, or because it is better to smile than to explain.
These people usually have certain well-established habits, for example:
They keep waiting for the future, they say that they will be happy when they do not get promoted, for example, when they win the lottery, or when they have the perfect body, in short, they only think about tomorrow and do not take advantage of now, they do not live day by day and unfortunately they spend their lives in that.
They become obsessed with shopping, believing that it will give them perpetual happiness, and what they experience once they have the object is a downturn, where everything goes back to the way it was before. No object, be it clothes, shoes, wallets, will make us eternally happy, we are responsible for being happy in life, our life does not have to depend on anyone and even less on an object.
Being at home all the time, isolated from everyone, is a sign that we are not really happy, or at least most of us are. There are those who like to be at home and don't need anything else, but there comes a point where this becomes pathological, and it starts to affect you both physically and psychologically. We all go through moments where we don't want anything else but to be alone and locked up, but these are things that are overcome the next day.
Being pessimistic is also a characteristic of them, they always see the bad side of everything, the negative comes first, they tend to victimize themselves, but they do nothing to change their thinking. We all at some point we are going wrong in life, but does not mean that it is forever, the important thing is to be aware that life can not be all happiness and laughter, there are also their moments of black clouds.
They are those who just sit and wait for everything to change, but do nothing to make things better, they complain about everything, they do not understand that bad times can happen and overcome, no, they cling to everything that goes wrong is them.
It's important that we take control of our life and our happiness, that we understand that not everything is rosy, but neither is everything bad, that unhappiness is only increased by us, that it's not the world nor others are YOU, so the best thing we can do is work on it, and change the negative habits in our life.
So, ¿are you happy or is it just a mask to the world?
