Dare to say, it's better to watch this drama once than to listen to 10 sermons.
It is because there is a greater resonance than preaching how to live life in metaphysical language, approaching it with the language of existence and embracing life.
Metaphysics and existence differ from the difference in temperature of life force.
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This is a life drama I personally enjoyed very much.
It is a drama like romance, not romance, but unlike other dramas, the atmosphere is quite dark and heavy.
However, what the drama contains is a very heartwarming and moving story.
Although it has been two years since it was aired, the classic sensibility and message that penetrates the essence of life without the trend of the times, It was enough to change my mind, and behavior.
There was a deep resonance.
It is a drama that I want to see at least once when people are tired of life or are struggling with human relationships.
The drama 'My Mister' is a story in which the three brothers and a woman who have lived roughly with the weight of their lives heal their lives through each other.
Beyond the humanistic element that simply smells like a person
What a person is,
What an adult is,
Furthermore, how to live your life,
It is shown through the relationship and life of the characters in the drama.
In the drama,'Lee Ji-an' is the head of a granddaughter in her twenties who suffers from poverty and a violent loan shark (Kwang-il) and supports her grandmother alone.
She works as a a dispatched occupation during the day and part-time at night, struggling to pay off the debt she has left her.
Another protagonist,'Park Dong-hoon', is the head of the safety diagnosis team at the company where Jian is attending.
Rarely these days, he is a clean person with no flaws.
Then, a mysterious gift certificate is delivered to him.
Although Donghun has lived cleanly, he remembers his brother's unfortunate circumstances and puts it in a drawer.
Watching this, Jian steals the gift certificate and throws it away in order to pay off her debt, and in the process, she gets caught up in a case with Park Dong-hoon.
In fact, the gift certificate was a bribe from a political fight within the company.
The bribe to defeat Park Dong-woon was wrongly delivered to Park Dong-hoon.
In the process, the company's political fight ignited, Jian stood on the side of the CEO and received money.
It plans to defeat Managing Director Park Dong-woon and Director Park Dong-hoon who noticed the existence of a bribe.
To this end, Jian installs a wiretapping app on Donghoon's mobile phone and listens to his every move.
And by listening to Donghoon's real life, Jian becomes immersed in emotions for the first time in the lives of others.
The sound of a sigh mixed with the weight of life being crushed, the sound of footsteps as if reading the direction of life, and a voice that seemed to be suppressed somewhere.
Jian gradually feels compassion as he listens to the life of Park Dong-hoon, who endures every day like a sincere life imprisonment without any hope and meaning of life.
Jian finds out that the life of the manager of a large company that makes 500 dollars a month is lonel
That there are loneliness and hardships on the other side of a good and rightful life.
That comforts Jian.
In fact, Jian is a man with a history of murder.
Jian murders a loan shark (Kwang-il's father) who assaulted him and his grandmother when he was a child.
The case was ruled in self-defense, but the murder record hindered Jian's normal social life.
All those who have done good will to Jian leave when they learn about Jian's past.
So, Jian couldn't believe the people's favor, and he grew up on his own without any adult's help.
" All the rigid humans are what a pity.
It tells me the days them have lived
Children who are hurt become adults too early.
I see that, so what a pity
I'm afraid to know the child's past. "
At first, Jian can't believe Donghun's consideration and favor.
She thinks he seems to be doing well because of his compassion for herself.
Jian's words, "A person who lives well is easy to become a good person," proves this.
However, the more Ji-an meets Dong-hoon and hears Dong-hoon's life, the more he realizes that Dong-hoon's consideration of helping him is sincere.
Donghun was sincere to Jian.
Structural designer Donghun found, diagnosed and designed not only the wounds and cracks of the building, but also the wounds and cracks of the ground.
He gave Jian the strength of his inner strength.
He bought her food, provided information on nursing homes, and fulfilled her responsibilities and do what's right as an adult to Jian, who was living a difficult life.
Eventually, Jian gradually opened his mind to Dong-hoon's actions, and only after the 7th episode was the first to laugh.
Donghun continued to help, but there was something that Jian was afraid of.
It was her murder record.
I didn't want to be known to Donghoon as much as that.
However, Dong-hoon hears the fact by Kwang-il and learns about Jian's past.
Nevertheless, Donghoon firmly listens to Jian's side.
I was able to understand Jian more.
How much hurt young Jian's heart, who fought alone to protect her grandmother, must have been lonely and lonely in this harsh world.
Jian, who thought that he would not be able to understand his past, Hearing Dong-hoon's words,'I would have killed him, too.', he sat down and poured tears.
Understand her painful past, In a sympathetic word from Donghoon who sincerely recognized, Jian, which was cold and chilly, flowed down like melting snow.
Donghoon's sincerity reached Jian.
From the second half of the case to Jian's eavesdropping, Dong-hoon discovers.
Nevertheless, Donghoon silently stands on Jian's side.
And to Ji-an's question whether I hate myself for acting like this, Dong-hoon answers this way.
"If you know a person,
If you know that person,
It doesn't matter what he does.
I know you "
Even after hearing her past, Jian feels'human warmth' to Dong-hoon, who is next to him.
The same is true of Donghoon.
His life is poor and beggar, but he hears from Jian that he is a good person.
Donghun and Jian find comfort in seeing each other's lives as pitiful and painful as they are.
With Jian comforting Dong-hoon and Dong-hoon comforting Jian, Jian and Donghoon will be able to live.
The resonance of pain achieved healing.
With a pledge to live happily.
"Mister, I hope you are really happy"
" Let's be happy "
We see the lives of others in a cross-section.
Evaluates and judges the person's true nature with only the representations reflected from the present point of view.
So there is a distortion in our perception,
This is because humans are not defined only by being seen.
We are unable to integrate the manipulations of the invisible other people's lives, and we are bound to fall into errors in seeing others at all times.
If so, what if we could see the lives of others in three dimensions?
What if it could be observed from the perspective of an omniscient artist?
What if you could grasp the context of life that connects the past and the present?
We will probably face confusion and contradictions beyond cognitive dissonance.
And you will feel deep compassion for humans.
The boss who is pushy at work can be the affectionate father of a child at home,
This is because depression and despair can exist at the end of the day of a coworker who always smiles brightly.
The drama'My Mister' contemplates the lives of others through hearing, not sight, through the medium of'wiretapping'.
It shows the process of understanding a person's life three-dimensionally and integrally by listening to the life of a person who has always been seen in an invisible place.
By listening to how pitiful that person's life is, how sad it is, and how serious it is, you can understand what a person is.
"Mister voice, everything was good.
Mister's words, thoughts, footsteps, everything...
It was like the first time I saw what a person is.."
Maybe it's a common Mister's life, but Jian learns what a person is by listening to Donghoon's life.
So her can have trust in people.
The change started from listening.
Faith in people comes from listening to people's lives.
If we can hear someone else's life, if we fully listen to it, we will know that we are all struggling through life's journey.
Everyone is equal in the face of the hardships of life.
Although the magnitude of hardship is relative, hardship itself is absolute.
No one can escape the hardships of life.
'Everyone has darkness, and everyone has sorrows of life.
Everyone has a deep despair and a story that no one can tell. '
Even if society cannot hear pain, people can hear pain.
When pain meets pain, hardship meets hardship, surprisingly, comfort and healing occur within it.
Because man is such a being.
It is a luck and a miracle to watch this drama at this time when everyone is struggling.
Like the message of this drama, while living in the future, we want someone to be someone who helps them get comfortable.
I want to become an adult who can listen to someone's hard life.