They say love is beautiful, and at the same time love is blind. Many times I ask myself, if love is blind then how do we know it is beautiful? But I guess the answer comes only when you experience it yourself. Honestly writing this from my heart I have once been in love, and honestly, it was one of the sweetest moments of my life that I can hardly forget.
Back then, I had a girlfriend who was everything I ever prayed for. She was caring, honest, respectful, faithful and above all she had a heart that gives without holding back. From the beginning of our relationship, it was like we were made for each other. We shared everything, the joy, the little struggles, the dreams. I was always happy around her, and she also gave me her time, her care and her love in full.
One thing I can say is that when two people are truly in love, it feels like the world is lighter, no worries, no anxiety and all problem is like nil. I could give her everything I had without thinking twice, and she also gave me what she had, even if it was little. Just staying together, holding hands, or talking late at night made me feel like I had all I wanted in life. It was not about money, it was about being seen, being valued, and being loved.
But life is not always as we expect. When she left for her national service, things started to change. At first, I thought it was just distance, but with time I began to feel the gap growing between us and our love is getting somehow weak, then she started acting different, the calls became less, the messages fewer, and slowly the bond we had began to fade away. I waited, I tried, but the truth is she never returned to me.
Till today, I still remember her beautiful characters. She was everything a man could wish for in a woman, the fact and I cannot deny that. But sometimes, love doesn’t end the way we want. It goes away even when we still want it to stay it is causes pain and it really hurts.
That was my story of love. It was beautiful, it was real, but it didn’t last. Yet I’m still grateful I experienced it, because love, even when it hurts, still shows us what the heart is capable of. But I still always wondering why must the situation turns to that, why do we experience the other side of this, but I now understand you have to let go of somethings.
My lesson is that if you really love someone and you want to make it work never allow distant relationship.
And in conclusion love should always be cherished while it last, because you never know if tomorrow it will remain or fade. Distance can test true love, and sometimes, it show us who is really meant to stay in our life.
Thanks to the community for this great topic, even sharing this right now I feel more relieved.
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