I’m a huge fan of gifts. I love getting gifts and I love giving gifts. I think one of my love languages is giving and receiving gifts. I find it warming when I get gifts, it’s more like “Oh you thought about me and then you decided to get me this.” The feeling it gives is soothing and I love it so much. I have always been a huge fan of Valentine well since I am a lover girl and I love LOVE, it is okay to be a huge fan of Valentine's and all the lovely things it comes with, the exchange of gifts, and more.
Humans are different, what I consider as my perfect gift might be different from what the next person considers as his/her perfect gift. Gifting is a great act but it is okay to say that when it comes to giving gifts, there is always a sense of confusion on what to get the next person. So we end up giving cash gifts instead.
I think one of the reasons people find it difficult to pick a perfect gift for a man is because of how expensive male gifts are. When I saw this topic I decided to survey my male friends by asking them what they consider a perfect gift for them. I found out that out of 5, what 3 of them said they would love as a gift is very expensive. Imagine wanting a PS5, an iWatch, or even a car as a gift. This is why most ladies settle for gifts with the least amount as looking at other options could be quite expensive.
I do not find it difficult getting a gift for my dad or male friends as I just need to know what they like and honestly that way it is not difficult to choose a perfect gift for them. The first time I wanted to get a gift for my dad, I found it so stressful as I didn’t want to give him the usual “Boxers and Singlet” which happens to be the usual lady gifts to a man. I decided to get him a box with different items in it (a watch, a belt, cuff links, a tie, perfume, and a shoe) I think this made it easier for me since it was meant to be a surprise gift and at that time I didn’t know what he loves.
Men are not so difficult to gift, I just think most women find it difficult to spend so much on a gift for a man. If I had the money, I would want to gift my man a car or even a house. So getting the perfect gift for a man isn’t difficult find out what he likes and if you have the money get it for him. Most men do not even love expensive things, some just want breakfast in bed, or like one of my male friends said he would want a ring or someone taking him to a tattoo shop to get new body art.
So getting the perfect gift for men isn’t difficult at all.
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