the word failure sounds like pendemic or say a plaque, like a diseases we pray enearstly never to ever encounter what most of us fail to realise is that failure in itself is a very important necessary ingredients of success, there will never be success without failure as a matter of fact I put it this way that success is a proof of failure, meaning before you tell me you're successful in a business or anything you must have failed a couple of times.
the truth is in as much as we hate to hear it, failing doesn't mean that something I wrong with your approach or plans or strategies, especially when it's a first time thing.
no one can truly gain mastery of anything without having to do it over and over again till he or she is perfect in doing it, like today I and some of my colleagues at the place of my learning, we had our cake practicals on butter icing, we took turns trying out ur cake designing and seriously the first time I tried it my hands were shaking I coud not steady my hands, I was making mistaking like new born baby, but with the help of my tutor I was able to take on a few step and I tried more, with time I was able to do it very well ...
I have hard several failing experiences but the joy of failing is that there are always lessons to learned, this is what differentiate wise people from fools, the wise ones failed and ask questions why did I fail, how can I do better, after this questions a moment of self reflection sets in and that's the learning process in failing forward, fail with lessons learned don't allow anything happen in your life without having a reflect.
like I said the fools will fail and not know why that happened, meanwhile the wise will fail and pause to think again, so it's okay to fail, it's alright not o get it right at first go, but don't that shouldn't stop you from forging ahead and trying new ways.......
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