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I am excited to participate in this week’s prompt and I will be writing about how I was betrayed by my best friend.
We have all been backstabbed in our lives by people we never thought would do that to us. And this experience could be so painful and this causes us to give up on such relationship with the person. Betrayal especially from a friend can be so painful and could lead to distrust for such individual. A lot of relationships have been destroyed because one person betrayed the other. I have gone through so many betrayals by people I trusted so dearly and this has made me built world against trusting friends. Imagine when you open up your secret to a friend in trust and you end you being betrayed by the same person.
Some years back I had a friend that was so dear to me we shared almost everything in common. That was my first time having a female friend I so much valued and we were like sisters so betraying me was such a very painful thing to me and it destroyed our relationship and not only that it destroyed me from being able to keep friends again talk more of trusting anyone again.
One of the days I invited my best friend so we can go visit my guy. As my friend I did not think that it can be of harm inviting her to come with me to visit my guy. And besides she had her own guy so I was never going to feel insecure. But little did I know that it was a very big mistake for me. So going with my best friend to my guys house we were free I never had any cause to suspect her or something. I don’t know how they both did it but after living my guy’s place that day I noticed my best friend was always talking about my guy and asking when next we will visit.
So, I kept telling her we will visit again so one of the days I went to pay my guy a visit without informing him only to go get a shock of my life as I met my best friend in the house with my guy in an ungodly manner. I was so shocked to my bone. So, when I started questioning them as to since when this happened, I got to know that the day I took her to visit my guy was when they both exchanged number and that was the first day, they both met.
Sincerely I felt heartbroken and so betrayed by my guy and my best friend. I was not really worried about my guy but I was so pained by my best friends’ actions I felt so betrayed by her. I felt since we were so close even if my guy had a crush on her I felt she should have told me about it but no instead of telling me she took her chance and decided to hurt me knowing that I will be hurt when I find out. I was very angry though but on the long run I forgave her but the relationship, the trust and everything we shared was destroyed. We still communicated at that time but it was not as it used to be till, we finally cut contact with each other. It was not an easy one for me getting so close to someone and at the end it turned sour. Though that scenario made me thread with caution when I meet with people and it has stopped me from relating so well with others which I hope that I will find one person that will change that idea about friendship.
This is my entry to this week’s prompt.
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