I am someone who loves to think outside the box a lot, I do some deep reflection and sometimes out of the blues I get inspired and I create some nuggest from it, I said that to say this that in life all humans seek after these three things very importantly We seek to BE LOVED, RESPECTED and APPRECIATED*.
whether as a woman or Man, we all want to have this feeling that we're loved, Respected and appreciated it goes on to tell us that we are important valued and recognized, why I feel the society is lacking so much into discovering this essential aspect of life is that generally men believed that women are suppose to love them respect them and appreciated them more because they do all the hard work providing for everything so they need more love, respect and appreciation but we have failed to get this that this three is an internal graving of every human.
the woman needs much love as the man too, she wants to be respected that her opinion too should count, she wants to be heard seen and appreciated and so I conclude by saying if any relationship between opposite gender whether for marriage or just dating this three must be mutually upheld if it must last.
concerning the issue of whether it is okay to spy into your partners phone anytime at all i don't think its healthy for the relationship
before that thoughts is processed in the hearts that means there is a bridge of trust and communication, so such acts comes from nurturing trust issues in the relationship, personally I am of the opinion that every person is at liberty of their choices and decisions the only thing is there are consequences to them,
also in a relationship once communication is bridge then there is bound to be trouble, trust issues arises, I believe that if there is an open communication if there is any issue or suspected act of infidelity it can be detected early enough, only checking behind the scene your partners device will spark more suspicious. .
I don't buy the idea, if something is wrong you should be able to detect the matter through open communication, body language and some observations and be bold to confront it straight up than acting in a nonChalant manner ...
