Hello guys, it's me again, and I am happy and excited to be here again this day. This is hive Ghanas community, and out of all the three topics That have been given to us, I would love to talk about "The betrayal". The topics is all about our opinion on wether in a marriage the spouce are supposed to check each other's phone maybe to be sure that they both are not cheating on each other. For me I say the answer is very clear.
Some people say it is being insecure, but for me I say if that marriage is built on a good ground and there is nothing to worry about, I believe in a marriage where both the husband and wife or the boyfriend and girlfriend trusts each other, they should be able to check their phones, because refusing or not allowing your spouce check your phone in the first place makes it look very suspicious, unless for other reasons apart from cheating, I don't see why your lover or spouce shouldn't check your phone.
Most times your spouce asks to go through your phone because of clarity, maybe he or she just wants to be clear and sure, sometimes they might have heard something that they don't believe and want to clear their mind and put in in the positive way, but you refusing makes it look as if you are indeed hiding something that you don't want you spouce to see, and what could that be, it is most likely that you are in a relationship with another person and you are trying to hide it. Everyone is supposed to have equal rights in a relationship and that's what makes me have this other thought about checking your spouce phone.
For you to check your spouce phone it might also mean that you are not clean yourself, and you start thinking your spouce is not clean too. If you are dating someone you truly love and that loves you too, I don't think checking his or her phone should be something you do regularly unless proven otherwise, I mean that unless if you see or heard something that warrants you to check his or her phone. And because your spouce did not give you his or her phone does automatically mean that he or she is cheating or having an affair outside your relationship, sometimes it might just be you, maybe you over react to things or you create problems from nothing, so the person is just trying to dodge all those stuffs.
Indeed I can say I have almost everything that I think about this topic, and if you read it from the beginning to the I know you will gain very good stuffs and knowledge. Thank you all for stopping by, I hope you learnt something today and I hope to learn something from you too this week so if you have not made an entry for this topic, hurry and do so. See you nect time.