When we face different adversity, difficult times, and dark times, it appears that they have all captured us in a place we can't comprehend or envision, and they will begin to break us, and we will be damaged beyond repair sooner or later, it doesn't just happen for a moment and stop but will continuously hunting us, and the pressure behind everything begin to pile up together.
Sometimes it looks as if everything is alright and all of a sudden you remember the crushing reality and each day it changes your mood from good to worse. all these crushing reality might be due to financial issues, health issues, relationship problems or family issues, whatever it might be it keeps under a pressure that's unbearable and making us feel little.
During this though times, life becomes more bored, rigid and tougher than expected as we struggle with issues that are unbearable. people are experiencing the worst stretch of their life currently and sometimes you don't seem to know unless you're been told and each day they put on a smiling face not because they are pretending but because they have this belief that everything is temporary and one day it will pass away and what they are facing now is minor towards God.
I was Watching a documentary about how humans deal with adversity Navigating through life's grief, absolutely devastating struggles, and attempting to endure the inconceivable made me realize that life isn't fair enough, but at the final moment of every documentary, everything that appears unimaginable and unbearable is always dominated, and you see those people who struggled at one point in their lives become great leaders.
Bearing the unimaginable is just relatively connected to not giving up even when those problems keeps rising and piling up and I have a friend that also had gone through a side of life which I wouldn't wish to happen to anyone.
I used to have a very close friend, and we were so close that I had no indication she had been through so much. Every day she would smile and we have been friends for several years, and I had no idea what she was going through, so how would an impartial observer know? She was usually cheerful, uplifting, and eager to interact.
She finally opened up to me when we were watching movies, and she asked why I don't live with my parents?...., which I answered her, and after I gave her my explanation... I asked her the same question, and her response made me wonder why I asked her because I couldn't imagine that such a thing could have happened in her life.....
She witnessed when her father murdered her mother when she was a child, but she was aware of what was happening and as a result, she had to live with her grandparents since then, and her father was imprisoned, and I eventually realised she has been through a truly awful side of life, and she wasn't afraid to go deeper while clarifying what could have induced her father to do so.
what I loved about her is that, she never for once made that situation changes her life and she is still who she's today and she was able to bear the unimaginable till now and that's a great personality he possesses.
life is a struggle and if we are not careful it might keep us from doing what we love to do even the normal ones and never allow just a bad moment define your life because there's more to this life than just being detained by our problems.
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