Good day all hiveans.
How is your day going today, I trust we are getting what we are looking for😊,
I thank God for how my today's activities went , although there was a heavy rain fall today towards this evening time that brought a much cold weather ☁️.
All the same we enjoyed our day over here.
I'm happy and honored as well for having this opportunity this evening to participate once again I'm our ongoing weekly contest, yesterday I participated when I wrote on the topic "friendship", below 👇 is the link to the post .
@lutherking147/my-entry-on-the-ongoing-e791450d579a2
So today I will like to write about this topic that says "love vs reality".
love vs reality
What is love actually?🤔
Well this is the affection one can have toward another or towards others . And when it comes to love , there are different kinds of love we have,
There is AGAPE love : this is a kind of love which we have towards our friends, brothers and sisters.
There is also A ROMANTIC love : this is a kind of love we show towards opposite sex that we admires a lot , example of people who practices this type of love is married couples. And according to what we are to talk about on this topic, it's obvious that it's this kind of love we are talking about.
The question, what will you do if you found out a night before your wedding day with the love of your life that you both are sickle cell carriers?
Well to me if I happened to be in a situation like this, it's really going to bother me so much , but I think I can still try to terminate the marriage instead of suffering my kids that might get affected.
Another thing I might do is , discuss with my wife and reach an agreement 🤝 wether we should just go ahead and we would decide that we aren't going to bear any child , if we can agree to that then we are still good to go .
There are many couples who doesn't have a child today, reason is not because the couldn't get a child rather it was just their life decision that they won't bear any child because of a good reason know best to them . So if possible we can do like that also hence we truely love ourselves, but I won't agree with the decision of having a child when I know we both are sickle cell carriers. NO, NEVER.
However the best still remains to check and know our genotype as early as possible before we start anything serious with anyone. As we know, its very very important.
