Sometime we face reality in the world, when you allow emotions to weigh you down you will not be able to make decision. Many persons have made lifetime wrong decision because of how they feel about someone or something around them. When you compare love and reality, it is mostly a difficult thing to decide on which to stand on. Many people who are not able to balance love and reality have been hurt in many ways. So regretted choosing reality over love and in the other way around others regretted choosing love over reality.
Sickle cell anemia is one of the dangerous disease or disorder that people suffer today because of ignorance. In our generation today it is very easy to prevent sickle cell anemia than it was before, but people out of ignorance decide to prove somethings wrong and end of proving themselves wrong. When you are being told her AS blood group is not supposed to marry an AS blood group partner, you will see people who will insist that, love is stronger and it can change anything, but to me I believe that is ignorance the truth.
I am a Medical Profession, and as a medical practitioner will witness a lot of cases that you might not know the origin. In situation of sickle cell anemia cases, most of them are aware of this disorder or disease but when you ask more questions to know why they carry on with the marriage after which they are aware that it might result to this disease, you will see clients and patient giving different response which in their own understanding it might be okay but medically wise it is not supposed to be so. Many of the clients were respond to you that they love their partner and can never let them go, so because of that they decide to marry them no matter the consequences.
When will you continue a marriage that will bring for children that will suffer in their Life, when you have the opportunity to correct many things and give them a better life at least bring forth children who will be able to live among the society and stand fit. Even if you continue with the marriage and at the end of it, you give birth to sickle cell anemia children, you as a parent would also be in a hot seat, because everyday you will be running around trying to save life that might eventually be gone afterwards.
Love over reality can shutter someone's life forever, it is medically advised that before partners are great to marry, they should be able to conduct a general and proper medical test, both reproductive test, to dictate the fitness of both to go into the marriage. There's this popular saying which we know to be, "I will marry ones and marry rights" when you marry someone who you are lost compatible with, have you married right?
Truly people say love is blind but there are things, love allow us to see properly and with clear eyes. Which in the situation of sickle cell anemia and its prevention, love has nothing to do with facing the reality. When you love someone and you are not compatible with a person you have no reason at all to continue with the person. If you Claim you love someone, you have to make sure you don't hurt them and yourself.