A while ago, I was having a conversation with a close friend of mine and along the line, my friend emphatically stated that I don’t socialize enough. I asked why that thought and their reason was due to the fact I have a few friends and some mote reasons to back to up.
Over the past weeks, I’ve reflected over it and thinking about I, I’d like to believe that statement to be true. I actually did watch a series of videos online of this man talking about how our twenties are for meeting people and building connections which would serve us the right purposes. I’ve equally read books and articles which have made me come to the realization that that maybe I do need to socialize more offen.
I’m someone who’s very comfortable alone. However, I do socialize sometimes but not often and now, I’m making a firm decision to be more open, sociable and build the right connections. Being the person that I am, it’s actually been a tough step for me because I’m a very self aware person. Today, I had an interaction with someone that made me realize that I’m probably being too hard on myself because 90% of the time, no one is really paying attention to you.
Everyone is equally busting minding themselves that they barely have time to focus on you. So, if you’re like the old me, who wouldn’t really socialize as much as they should, this is your cue to be you. Open your wings and have the best time of your life, meet the best people, have the most mind blowing conversations and make the best of memories because what is life without all these?
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