I am very happy about myself and this is because of two reasons. The first reason is because I was brought up with love and secondly because of the fact that I love myself a lot and I won’t do what I can’t take to someone. That’s a rule.
I met a guy who doesn’t like African ladies knowing fully well that he’s an African and when I asked him his reasons, he said the all the women he has dated are Africans and they were nothing to write home about. He mentioned that they do not love unconditionally. Having an African woman who loves you will always want something from you and it is mostly money. Honestly, he’s wrong. He hasn’t met every woman on earth so he can’t just make that awkward decision saying that all African women are scum or love men because of what they can benefit from them. Let’s talk about myself…
Do I love conditionally or unconditionally?
Firstly, one thing I so much detest in my entire life is pretense or deceit. If I ever have someone who does that to people, I always make sure that I stay away from such person.
Truly, I’ve got my spec or what I love in a man and I can’t date a man who can’t take care of himself not to talk of me. I’m not rich but I’m trying my best for myself and I’m living well.
The fact that I don’t want to date a man who can’t take care of me doesn’t mean I’m greedy but one thing may lead to the other and it won’t be nice to end up with someone who can’t take care of the home.
I am an unconditional lover. I don’t love people based on conditions. If I ever get to meet a man I tend to like so much and maybe lower to my level, I can just try to bring him up to my level. If I could stop the world for the person I claim to love, I’m surely going to do it. It’s just so sad that the people you love sometimes treat you like trash which is not fair but as long as you treat me well, I’m surely going to love you unconditionally.
Talking about the kind of love I have received, there was a time I was in a relationship with a man and he was always asking me about what kind of business I want to do. He was after my career cos he really wanted me to do well.
One day, he called me to come outside my hostel and took me out. While we were at the restaurant, he sent me a hundred thousand Naira. That’s my first time getting a huge sum of money from a man.
I felt good not because of the money but the purpose of the money. It makes me realize that there are some people who wants me to do well in life.
If you love someone, you can cross oceans for the person!