It's a new day and a new topic, a very interesting one at that, I hope everybody achieve thier goals for the day.
****what wound I do if I found out that my real parents are overseas enjoying themselves and the people I am living with, the people I considered my real parents are not my biological parents****
well for me the answer to this question will be simple, but it depends on what the real story is.
if my real parents lost me
I would forgive them if I find out they lost me and has tried looking for me but to no avail, that doesn't mean I would leave my other parents because they have been the one taking care of me right from day one
if they leave me on purpose
if I was abandoned on purpose by my real parents, and they went overseas to continue thier life, if we happen to meet again I would thank them for leaving me with the people I'm with now, because they are wonderful people, you don't have to be related to someone by blood before you can call them family, blood they say is thicker than water but many times we are often betrayed or abandoned by the people we call blood
real parents don't abandon thier own child, not even when thier own life is at risk, though they may have be faced with a no choice situation that made them give me away but it has been how many years now? and they never looked back or write or cater for my needs, I just happen to know about them, they would be my second parents but never my first
Its a hard truth to learn and it's going to hurt like crazy, to find out that you have been lied to your whole life, to find out you could have being someone else, you could have been called another name, it would really hurt but what will make the pain a little subtle is when you consider how lucky you are to have such good parents you have now.