Sometimes in our lives, we do not want some things to happen, but they still happen. Some things, like wanting to get something but not being able to get it, liking someone and the person liking you back, aspiring to get to a position but not yet getting there. Most of these things are what bothers us as humans, and we try so much to fight them, but sometimes we do not win in every aspect. That is why we need to take things very slow.
I decided to talk about this topic tonight because I have been thinking recently about some things that have happened in my life and some bad times that I have had. I happen to be a lenient person to the core, but yet I have my own principles, which sometimes some people go against whenever they get to know the kind of person I have, and just because I have been too plain from the start, it will be so hard for them to go with later when they discover my principles.
I learned to understand that you can never satisfy everyone; no matter how smart you can be or how cool you tend to be, there will still be someone out there who will see your bad side and some who will see your generosity as a bad thing. That is why we are not complete, and we are meant to complete one another, and this is life.
But when it becomes something that you cannot tolerate the way people treat you, then I think you just have to let it slide and let peace reign for your own safety because these kinds of people with toy with your mental health and still claim to be right even after they do not do the right thing. One thing I just know is that you should not go beyond your limit so that you won't feel so disappointed when it happens.