Hi besties thank you for taking out time to read my post I appreciate,I thought about this and decided to share…I just reasoned that somehow people don’t make a scene when they cry probably why they are not heard.
Cry in this contest means bothered,having a problem or even in literal meaning crying I’m saying that silence has made a lot of people miss a lot of opportunity, do you know how many people that have gotten solutions to their problems and lives that have changed because they were vocal with their problem if u are going through something and u want to do something about it you will need to start being vocal about it a closed mouth is an opportunity missed,if you need to do something about that problem you need to start talking to people asking the right questions.
Information is power you won’t get clarified or sorted if u continue to die in silence yes you can’t do it alone you will need the right circle and the needed information,most times the problem is not that they aren’t people willing to help but you are not vocal about your situation.
What’s the worst case?? you try and nobody listen which I don’t think is possible and that’s why I say make a scene be as loud as possible take the right steps and definitely you would get a listening ear.
Because you called one or two person about it and they didn’t help doesn’t mean you should stops there, infact you haven’t made a scene.Every one have things actively going on in their lives and trust me they might not just notice yours because u wear your problem on your face be vocal about your problem.
what do you stand to loose? nothing,you might say rejection but it doesn’t take anything from you. it’s just another NO that should motivate you to try again because you know why? Giving up is not an option for example people try new food everyday,learn new skills,we keep trying incase you haven’t figured.So now you get the point of this whole writer up I didn’t mean when you are crying create commotion but be vocal enough with what u are going through so people can hear u not that after telling one close friend and you get turned down that’s all you no longer want to try again.
Alot of people have found favor from strangers it mustn’t be someone you know all the time,for example if you have a business and you are struggling with sales and maybe people you know ain’t patronizing you go out give your business card, talk to people about your business, advertise be strategic……
Many people who figured it out didn’t do it because they got it right at first trial.
Making a scene means push it don’t settle for no,Go hard and all out for that thing you want if it’s really bothering you or affecting you, I don’t know why you still want to be quiet about it, what do you gain when you are quiet? Nothing right!! it just means dying in silence and then if you are vocal about it ? You have higher chance at succeeding and getting solution because someone would hear you and offer help.Thank you again for taking time out of your busy schedule to read my post I hope this inspires someone.😊