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My First dating experience.
I was able to keep myself till I got to university level , though I almost started doing that during my secondary level because my friends then were practicing it but I couldn't do it because I was very scared of my parents and I know if they get to know about it that is if I tried it, I will be in serious trouble. So not until university level did I start dating and that was my first time .
There was a lady I met in my university days , she was so beautiful and gorgeous too. Her name was Simbi , she liked smiling a lot and maybe that was the reason why I fell for her then though I was a very shy person.my friends knew me to be a very jovial person but when it comes to asking a lady for a relationship, I am a different person entirely.
I had been watching her but I think she noticed because we were in the same department and where she always sits is not that far from where I am always sitting. I always find it difficult to talk to her .
In my department everyone knows I am very good in mathematics and this gave me an edge over everyone in my department at that time, whenever we had anything to do in calculus( like further math) everyone runs to me because they know I would get them solve for them .I lovely and very good part of me made simbi and I to become close, I said earlier that I am always shy to talk to a lady for dating. She started coming to me for solutions concerning calculus because she wasn't good at anything in calculation.
Our exam was fast approaching and everyone in my department was very scared, including Simbi but because Simbi and I are on talking terms , she made me know that she would be coming to where I stay so I can teach her very well , and I said no problems.
For God so good she finally came to my side and I was pretending I don't really find her attractive , we got to the business, I started to teach her all the things she supposed to know in the subject but what baffle me was while I was teaching her she was busy looking at me , then when I caught her looking at me, I asked her, what happened simbi? Are you tired? Then she said I don't understand all what you had been teaching me , hmmmmm.. But I think I am beginning to like you .I was very shy and speechless but I was thanking God I finally got what I wanted.then something led to another , that was how my first dating started.
We could not hide our relationship in front of everyone , it was like the one of Romeo and Juliet.
Everybody was like these guys are truly in love ,even the lecturers know about it .
To cut the story short our relationship ended up badly in a way that I will never want to remember again in my life .
Since then I am afraid of women more than anything , even till now .
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