If an issue arises concerning marriage I think it very deeper than just relationship talk, you know marriage is a Union between a man and a woman who had agreed to live together as husband and wife so any issues between the two should be taken very seriously in order to avoid a danger that can lead to divorce or Heart broken.
If a misunderstanding arise in a relationship it's can be overlooked or handle with a mind set like we are not married yet, but in marriage... It's very necessary that about 80% steps taken needs to be made known between husband and wife with this I believe there will definitely be a great trust, understanding and peace between the two spouse.
Reviewing "the case of A couple who have been married for a decade with two kids just separated over the weekend" Hmm... I may not really know the particular act that lead to their separation but betrayal in marriage can be very heartbreaking and So so annoying.
Is not like I had ever been married before.. but imagining if I gets married one day and later released that my spouse has a deep secret that she has kept from me over decades, honestly I will never take it likely. One deep truth about any marriage is that what ever that effect's a husband affect the wife as well and it's because the both shares one bond. If a husband or wife decides to live a life of betrayal and succeeded in keeping it for a long while, it may sound like being smart enough but nothing is hidden under the sun âī¸ and must surely be reviewed one day.
There is this rumour that had been lying around like a vital information concerning some Men in the eastern part of Nigeria, that some men are good in keeping a Nigerian wife at his home country and get married again in abroad. Now if this rumour happen to be true, In a case like this... The foreign wife do not have any knowledge that her husband has another wife and later on in future time if she eventually finds out then it will result to a disaster in the marriage.
It's going to be heartbroken đ,
Annoying âšī¸,
And can even cause separation or pressure to take laws in to hand.
In terms of checking partners phone in marriage, I think it is not a wrong move.
Trust is very important especially in marriage but sometimes one needs to think otherwise, what if I may be wrong? or what is my spouse is pressured to take a decision that he or she never wanted?, and maybe he or she is threatened. Again if it happens to be a personal decision to intentionally be a betrayal, then checking his or her phone might be a good option to get a concrete evidence. You know another thing about phone is that it's stores a lot of information for instance, chat history with other people, voice note, messages and phone calls.
I'm concluding that checking partner's phone is not a bad lifestyle, in as much as the intention is not to still money or do any ugly things then I can tell that nothing is wrong with such action.
In addition, in this our world nowadays, a lot happens everyday. Everyone needs to be extra careful, trust is very important and it's not something that can be forced or bought, but trust can only be earned and it's is very natural.
Thanks for all times spent reading, see you again next time đ...
Young Eze Blinzz
Greatness in God