the truth about life is the more you grow the better you know, imagine when we were kids, our parents can warn us about things like our friends, doing this and not doing that, no matter how hard we try to justify what we did to be right they wouldn't just listen instead, we felt hurt, why wouldn't they just give us attention or atleast try to see things from our perspective, and now we're all grown up, we now understand better why those warnings and scolding were very important
As a young graduate, just got introduced into the labout market, seriously it's one of the toughest point in a young man's or a young woman's life whose so eager to make the most of the life because at this point everything can be so confusing and complicated with no clear goal on site.
I now realize that statement that says "who you know really matters, it get to some point it's get really obvious that degree alone cannot afford you the dream life you always wanted, it's gone beyond that.
All you need is a connect, someone who can link you up to where you want to be, for every stage you desire any office or position you wish for there are men and women occupying that Position and all you need is how to link up and stick close for a while, you can move from ground zero to top floor not because you can speak English or a great portfolio, but because there is someone who knows someone that knows someone.. I feel that's the built up of the life now
politics is a game of interest
electionary season will is on the run,.its also the reason why you see all these politicians sticking their nose everywhere the perceived goodies, the game of politics is that of loyalty and rewards, the more loyal you're the more rewards and benefits you get.
recently I started working for my boss, a lady who is well connected with the top wealthy people in the states, including handling the governor's birthday cake plus very wealthy and prominent well connected individuals, she is very very exceptional at what she does i would say she's the best cake artist that I've ever known yet still I knew this height to some extent could be possible because of who she knows
there are times when someone is a great fit and just by coming in contact with a person the whole narratives changes because that person becomes a connect
then I thought about how many extra ordinary cake artist, chefs, highly skilled individuals who are suppose to serve kings but still now are unknown, the other day a very prominent chef, came in, according to my boss he's traveled far and near both with African countries and Others parts of the world, while we were at the kitchen he told me, that by now he's supposed to have his own space for business or doing well but here he is still working for someone at the age of 60+, I thought about that for a second, it could be that something happens along the way of he just wasn't lucky to have been connected.
you can say for footballers, or any field were you see someone you know you are 10× better than but due to knowing this person who knows another person who gave out a slot and without a prior knowledge or anything steps into an office earning way better than someone who is by far more qualified by experience and technical knowhow.
I was listening to Apostle Joshua Selman and he said something very profound he said, if all you have is money then you're very much a poor man, he said that emphasizing on the importance of building valuable relationships, creating sure connections that is able to open certain doors later in life, never neglect the gift of men, its the most expensive asset you can ever boost of in life.