Is not it very common to heard that, if you do a bad thing no one will love you anymore? Our society teaches us how unloved we will be if we don't behave properly. It creates a fear to left alone, to not get any support from society. I don't know maybe you also learn this actively or passively from your parents or surroundings.
But, is this right? I always think about this, how can a human being suppose to unlove? Is not it unfair? How can we tell someone, no one gonna love you anymore? Are we heartless? Are we that selfish to left alone any human being?
But yeah, we sometimes act on this. If any person doesn't meet our requirements, if he doesn't fit with the social rule we withdraw our love. If you get the feeling of love from your family in your childhood, you will still engage with others in the adult world who don’t feel lovable. And there's a huge chance to get influenced by them. And this toxic message also doesn't let us love thyself.
What we need to do?
Consider, you are not unloved because of the people around but the outside world makes this syndrome.
Find out all the other things which give you the feeling of being loved.
Come to the point and think that you are loveable no matter what. It's not your problem that others are feeling not to show their love towards you.
Make yourself wiser and don't consider who doesn't love you.
And most importantly love yourself. Emerge as a self-lover, embrace your love and feeling and spread the news. There should be no human being unloved. Show your support and love if you feel anyone needs this. And, remember you are a human being and always deserve love. It's never your problem that others are not showing love. So, take control and spread more love.