Everyday of my life i have been learning different things from everyone and everything around me including how people tend to handle themselves in times of hardship...
I have always thought i was the only one going through a lot of things but today i realized there are many more people like me out there that are feeling this same way and there is no one to stand by them in this time of hardship...
"No matter what you're going through, there's a light at the end
of the tunnel and it may seem hard to get to it but you can do it
and just keep working towards it and you'll find the positive
side of things."
Above is a quote by DEMI LAVATO ..
This is a new week and its meant to be a week of smiling and greatness but today a friend's mood made me so unhappy and not just any friend, a close one at that and that was why i had to share "demi lavato's" word of encouragement ...
When you see some people laughing and smiling always, it doesn't mean he or she has achieved all that they wanted, that is just their personality...
Don't be quick to judge as you don't know what they are actually battling within themselves and still yet they never stop making others laugh even when they are not happy deep down...
We all have different ways of handling our problems, some people handle it with frowning while others handle and face their problems with smiling and laughter which doesn't change the fact that they are in pain deep down...
You are happy today and all of a sudden an unforeseen challenges hit you, what would you do ??
Are you the type that try to solve it with anger or the type that tries to hide it from those you love while smiling and pretending that all is well???
In this case, i won't blame both party even if they act irrationally as its the sudden challenges that they are facing that is making them act that way and they are not to be judged, they are humans with different perspectives...
Today is not all about me but about my friend who is currently going through a lot at the moment and it pains me that all i can do is to cheer you up at the moment...
You have been a great help to me and seeing you like this really breaks my heart but i know that sooner or later this phase will surely pass, you just need to put up a strong face and consult HE above that listens to all problems and he will intervene..
This is just one of the phases of life and trials is must but you have to overcome it and i am with you all the way and i am sure you will be an OVER COMER...
A quick message to all my friends who is facing or battling one or two hardship at the moment, fret not as your story will change for the better soon and i know sooner or later ALL WILL BE WELL, don't give up, keep fighting and you will win...
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You just need to fight hard, believe and trust in the one above and there will be testimony, not everyone smiling is happy and that is why if you know a friend that is feeling sad or going through hardship at the moment, if you can't encourage them with words then when you see them GIVE THEM A HUG as that is what they need...
In summary, to my dear friend and fellow hiveans feeling down and loosing hope at this moment, the hardship you are facing now is a test of time and only temporary, i just have one thing to tell you and that is JOY IS COMING...
In conclusion, i advice you to fret not, pray fervently, eat well, sleep well and all will be a STORY....
THANKS FOR READING....