I had to do a lot thinking to come up with what to write about Trust and just a few minutes ago, I realized I could use this opportunity to advise and encourage myself instead and you too.
So many would be say no man is to be trusted, I agree with that actually but I'm not about that aspect of trust now.
Have you started a great plan, everything seem to be going fine and just when you're about to win the situation, you realize you have to start over?
I'm saying this from an experience, I do know how that feels. You will feel like you shouldn't do it anymore, you would want to just sob over your failed plan and maybe even feel like crying to feel better.
Does it work for you that way? Like do you really feel better after you sob or cry over your failed plan? Maybe to an extent it does but is that what one is supposed to do?
I want to believe that, what we ought to do in such a situation is to:
Trust The Process And Keep Going
Not an easy thing to do considering the fact that trust is one difficult thing we find hard to show. But giving our trust to the process of our plans is a key to having a successful plan.
Sobbing or crying over our failures is like looking back to our past when a bright future awaits us to move forward to gain it.
Yeah, we can't help it sometimes then we doubt the process but we must take note not to let our doubt stay too long... Doubt kills plans, brings up procrastination and delay our future.
There was this young man who lived close to my family sometime ago, he was so jovial and kind at heart... That I know very well. But things weren't too good for him, he hardly had a three square meal but his attitude never shows how hard life is for him.
His neighbor would always talk behind him, how worse his life is and him not making any effort to get out of it. The young man works with the bank but as a cleaner, a first class graduate who couldn't get a good job.
One thing I noticed about him was that, he was never bothered about what his neighbors thought of him. How sure am I? He got a good job later on and celebrated it with those same neighbors who thought bad of him.
And the lesson I learnt from him was that he kept his cool in a time that most people would have freaked out and go the easy way. He trusted the process he was on and success met him at last.
Have a successful plan work out depends on how well you trusted the process, stay calm during failures and overcome those quiet whispers asking you to give up.
So while you plan, be sure to have the mind to trust the process no matter how long it's going to take.
I'll end the post with some words from In His Post where he said this:
If only your eyes can open to see the incantations, sacrifices and rituals billions of people do make on daily basis, you won't wait for someone to force YOU into belonging somewhere.
Thanks for reading!!!