Warrior Mom,💪

I read your words and feel every single one of them. I know how exhausting it is when motherhood and caregiving consume you completely, when days and nights blur into an endless cycle of caring, soothing, and sacrificing even the most basic things, like a hot meal, a warm cup of coffee, or a moment of rest. I also understand that feeling of not being able to trust anyone else with this caregiving role, especially during this season of your baby’s life—honestly, at any stage, but even more so now.

First, I want you to know that you are not alone in feeling this way. It’s normal to feel exhausted, frustrated, and even to doubt yourself. Motherhood isn’t how it’s portrayed on social media; it’s chaotic, draining, and sometimes lonely. But it’s also a reflection of the deepest love there is. You’re doing an incredible job, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. You are not alone. Raising a baby, especially during the teething stage, is a challenge that not many understand, but there are many of us who have been through it, and we’re sending you a heartfelt embrace from afar.

Reading your words brought back so many moments from my own experience—I lived it with my three children, each in their own way. I know how overwhelming it can be to care for a teething baby, compounded by accumulated exhaustion, lack of sleep, and the pressure to “do more” when you’re already doing the most important thing: taking care of your child.

The teething stage will pass (even though it feels eternal right now). Yes, it’s an expert-level patience test, but little by little, you’ll be able to reorganize your time. In the meantime, try cold teethers, gentle gum massages, avoid numbing gels, and consult with the pediatrician about any remedies for discomfort.

Regarding the topic of earning income from home, I completely understand that need. Sometimes the pressure to contribute financially can be as overwhelming as physical exhaustion. But I encourage you to take it step by step. Explore activities you can do in small windows of time, without feeling guilty if you can’t make quick progress.

Deciding to leave your job wasn’t easy, but you did it out of love. And even though it may seem like the world doesn’t recognize that effort, little Caleb does. His attachment, his need to be with you, is proof that you are his safe haven and his security.

Remember that taking care of yourself is important too. It doesn’t have to be anything big; sometimes, a sip of that cold tea, even if interrupted, is an act of self-care. Celebrate those small wins. Don’t be too hard on yourself. It’s okay if some days you’re just surviving. It’s okay if you can’t do everything you’d like to. Over time, you’ll find ways to generate income without neglecting him, but for now, just breathe. The extreme exhaustion isn’t forever, even if it feels like it today.

You are strong, brave, and capable—even on the days when you don’t feel like it. There are many of us moms who understand and stand with you, even from afar.

Give yourself grace.🤗