I can understand you. I had this friend who trusted easily. She gave everyone the benefit of the doubt. She'd meet someone just once and already starts singing their praises, but it would be only a short while before she starts grumbling about the same people... so I can understand you.

However, I can't tell you what to do and how to do it. I don't know that much. But I know you'll figure it out if need be.
Greetings!