Thanks for this awesome feedback. You've straightened a lot on the matter and I believe you are sure to say certain things only when you believe it's safe.

This particular girl from my story is totally different. She carried the advise of openness too serious. She can talk for 1 hour without a full stop and her number of relationships can tell the problem. Sometimes I wish I can tell her her talking is a turn off for guys but I don't know how she'll take it. More than the secrets, the talking was what made it all bad