We might have been hearing this before from alot of people but before we go on I would like to remind us about it again, everything that has an advantage also has a disadvantage, you see that drink that's too sweet which makes you want to take it always, well then you also need to know the side effect of sugary things in your system, and what about that bitter leaf water or herbal mixture for malaria that our mothers use to cook for everyone to drink, it may taste bitter and awful but we don't just drink it for pleasure, yes but for the fact that it washes away too much sweetness or sickness in our system, so you would now tend to agree with me that whatever has an advantage also has its own disadvantage.
Now coming down to selfishness as a theme on its own, it's so unfortunate to see that many of us has already grabbed onto the negative aspect of it and leave out the positive aspect and even I is guilty of it, it has also gotten to the extent where when ever someone is being called selfish, the person is already visioned as a bad, well we can't help it sometimes which is why today we are being presented with this topic to deliberate on What's right and wrong, plus if possible to adjust where necessary.
For this prompt I would like to go with just one situation or should I say illustration of how being selfish is good, I know of a lady who saying Noo to guys who approach her is a big thing for her so she tends to easily agree and corporate with them when ever they approach her, and you know guys now.. they hardly chop and clean mouth, if this guy chop his portion he would go and tell the other guy that go and try your luck because this girl is a free giver, and from there you would notice that she's the type of lady that guys love to approach always and you would be there wondering why is she the only one that attracts guys to herself or am I not beautiful enough?
I would love to tag that kind of person as being selfless with her own body not to her husband but to any dangling thing in trousers, in this type of situation where another person is always reserved and disciplined, you can equally say that such person is being selfish with her body and it's a good thing, my dear please keep being selfish and stingy with your body because nothing is worth you sacrifing your dignity, self worth, pride as a woman and Integrity for.
Selfishness in some kind of way is a good to so practice it more often 👍.
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