Deep thoughts you shared here❤️
I'll always say.. You can't shame the shameless.. This comes in handy when an Individual tends to hide certain details for the fear of being misunderstood or left behind by a loved one.

But like you stated.. Who loves you won't leave.. And in my opinion a sensible human would be sure to know sincerity when he sees it.
I'm a big believer of transparency especially in a romantic relationship and that alone is a major factor for an healthy union.