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Charity, they say begins at home, goes a long way to conveying a message of children and parental responsibilities in the society.
It is true that any society that wants to build a good nation most consider the family as an important organization. Considering the family as a big society and taking up the responsibility of raising children in the way that they should reflect responsibilities.
Because a child who does not have a good upbringing and bad family grooming is likely to end up causing mistakes and nuisance in the society.
Let me set a point from the little things in my environment. In the neighborhood where I am living, people find it difficult to keep it clean, and mostly lived there are youths and young teenagers, some even leave their house unsweet.
This could be the result of the foundation that built them. Honestly speaking, children of the gen-z age and the gen-z parents have failed in so many ways, in the upbringing of their children.
I could still remember that when I was younger that I couldn't pass an adult without greeting them. I was unable to speak back at my elders, no matter how tough the scolding would be.
But today, children speak to their elders as if they're age bracket, disrespect people in the society, in the manner they want. And when the elders try to caution them, their parents are even the ones who would come out to support them.
That is a very wrong foundation because that's how the child would grow. I believe that if parents could change their prospective in their children's upbringing, the society would still stand a chance of having more responsible people.
Some parents watch their children bit up their neighbour's children, instead of cautioning that child, some parents tend to support their child.
Leaving that child to grow up with the mentality that bullying is nice. That is the way we came about having so many aggressive youths today.
Some, parents are chronicle smokers, when you smoke, and ask a child under your care to go buy you those stuffs, that child doesn't see anything wrong with smoking. People smoking, yes, I'm not a smoker, I don't do any of those.
And my children don't, because many insane people today on the streets are out there because of some forms of drugs they've been taken. In some ways, it may not be their fault because their parents raised them up with the mindset that smoking is good.
Their parents didn't tell them the implications of their actions, so parents have to raise children, in such a God-fearing manner, to avoid the multiplication of irresponsible humanity.
I see parents take an alcoholic substance, before their children and I ask what this child would learn, and how is the child going to handle child raising during their time?
The truth is that seventy percent of the life and attributes a child exhibits outside the home is the home training he /she has got from their parents.
There is a child I who use to frowns her face all the time, even when everyone is happy, she seems too angry and aggravated aggressive.
So when I decided to do some findings about her, then I got to realize that she was raised by parents who were fighters throughout in their marriage.
Many parents are fighters, who lay causes and all sorts of abusive words their child. And their children are forced to learn that from them.
So when they get out of Their homes to school, they unveil those words and aggression on their fellow kids.
Charity begins at home, is not just about children alone, but both how adults live their lives.
It is just like couples who fight at home, and in their marriage, is either the parents were aggressive or they live with someone who was aggressive in that manner, so they see it as a normal in the society.
Some of these person's IQ is very low, and they don't think beyond the box. That's how they were raised, so charity, for any society to have good and responsible human and people, it starts from the home.
Because the family and home is a big society itself.
Thank you for reading this article to the end.