"I have limited time and energy"

Learning is such a thing that starts from the time we come into this world, and we continue to learn till our death. In fact, someone's death can be a lesson for others, depending on the situation. Learning is a nonstop process, and we can learn from everything if we have the mentality to learn. It's possible to learn from movies, books, or any real-life stories. Not everything needs to be meaningful, like movies or books. But a single statement or a single line can be very influential, which can be helpful to us in our growth.

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In life, not everyone is our friend, and some people choose to be obstacles in our way, and they don't want good for us. Who does not want to eliminate the obstacles on the way, and thinking about revenge on those kinds of people is very natural. In life, I have seen many people who love to go to extra lengths to take revenge, even if sometimes it's also harmful for them. They just want to take revenge and make them suffer, and that kind of thought is some kind of crazy thought, and driven by it, it can bring huge destruction to those people on whom revenge is taken.

I have seen drama long ago where the hero of the drama was betrayed by some close people and friends. Suffered a huge loss and broke down mentally. He could overcome everything in a few years, and he became rich and powerful with time. He was capable of taking revenge on each person who had betrayed or deceived him earlier. In fact, it was expected to take revenge. When one of his first persons asked him if he wanted to take revenge or not. The reply was interesting, and a single statement caught my attention. I can't exactly remember what the statement was, but I am interpreting it as I understood it, and in reply, the hero said,

"I have limited time and energy. And I shouldn't waste my precious time and energy for some worthless people who are not important to me."

That single line or statement influenced me deeply and actually gave me a good lesson. I realized it's not necessary to make manual efforts to take revenge. Because if I make manual effort for revenge, it will cost me time and energy both, and it can't bring any benefit to me. If I make too much effort to take revenge, I may end up hurting myself, and the mindset of revenge can be an obstacle to my growth. Additionally, revenge is a never-ending process, and if I take revenge, the opponent will try to take revenge on me if they get the opportunity, because situations change with time, and I think it's better to focus on living a better life rather than thinking about revenge.

Unfortunately, I cannot remember the name of the drama. But it actually does not matter because a name is not so important. But the lesson I learned was very important for me, and it indeed helped me to stop thinking about revenge if something happens in my life, and that's a lot of time and effort of mine.