Being caring to people was the thing I like most, I easily got carried away if I see someone not happy, but now is like I am been to simple to dealt with, since I give out my time to people they want to turn it against me, at times making me to believe what I am always doing is wrong, I Know some people's around me are still telling goods about the way I do when someone is actually in dying need.
If you change your mind due to what someone did to you, dear that means you have fail yourself and your spirit, as an individual, someone should not make you change, or make you do anything which you didn't plan for, because we are all different peoples with different abilities, that is why, you easily hear peoples saying, all human being are unique, although I got angry at time's when I noticed that my goodness want to be ruin, I will decide to stay positive and keep my mind off it, I will reject getting angry but rather say no to irregular thought.
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One thing I learnt is that everything is for a reason, maybe this was how it was meant to be, I also understood that, everyone has their different ways of doing their things, because no matter the amount of hindrance that is alter inorder for me to stop doing what I did, I still choose to be the way I was.
What I learnt from the way I lived is that:
It pays to be good: if you do good things goodness would always follow you and your family, at time's, it may not come to you directly but believe me, they is always a reward for being good, that why it is better to keep a good records to yourself.
I also learned that, allowing one hundred percent of peoples opinions in your performance is wrong as too much opinions will delay in decision making and will later retard the aims of that subject.
We are all varies from different backgrounds and norms but we are one as a human, then for the fact that we are of different cultures, we are not the same in the way of understanding, for the fact that I know this, I now understand how I respond to certain phenomenon which may come up on daily basis, be it family, friends or neighborhood. Thanks for your time in reading my post.